Jazz Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 I hope the pills work xx im medical priority, but got to bid if anything comes up. could be this week could be a year Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 awwwwww Gooster, (((hugs))) i hope the pills kick in quickly and you soon feel brighter Suzeanna, fingers crossed for you, it might be better to get another ultrasound and mammogram just to ensure all is as it should be Jazz, i don't know if your bidding thing is the same but my mum does homefinder calls in our city, she says to stay up and bid at the last minute before the bidding closes... i don't understand it myself got to doss round until 4.30 for my appointment, the clinic usually runs really late so i don't expect to be seen on time or out at a reasonable time...may treat myself to chips on the way home Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yantan Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 Jayne depression doesn't discriminate and can hit anybody, anytime. I hope your climb back up isn't too lengthy Sam how sad about the little girl I got a shock yesterday when I found out someone I used to work with had been found guilty of pedophilia I knew him quite well and liked him. It just goes to show that you can never truly know someone and darkness often lurks behind friendly facades. Suzeanna I hope your appointment goes well and I will be here thinking positive thoughts for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 it doesn't matter when you bid, its who is most suitable im on the homeswapper site too. had 2 offers but not suitable. is she on that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happylittlegreensquirrel Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 Thanks guys. I know that I shouldn't be down, on the surface my life looks great. Nice house, car, horse, holidays, no major money worries, good job. I know there are so many people who would absolutely love to live my life, and are going through so much crap. From reading up on depression, I think it is a chemical imbalance in the brain or something that causes it, so it doesn't matter what you have or how good your life is, if that imbalance is there, you will go through dark times. I was really hoping I could get through this without resorting to the happy pills again, as they are an absolute nightmare when it comes to withdrawal symptoms when it is time to come off them. However when I am in the middle of doing an eye test and actually want to burst into tears, I know I can't get through this without some help. someone I know is going through a very similar thing but had huge down swings and the first doctor she saw said she was most likely bipolar ! I told her to get a 2nd opinion and she went private and the GP there says she is 100 % not bipolar he wants her to try Neuro-Linguistic Programming As much as I understand it the idea is that the NLP will help her develop a new way of coping and responding to things ( I am not explaining it very well ) It might be worth looking at , I know a few other people who have tried it and gotten on very well with it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 i don't think so Jazz she takes calls from homeless people, people looking for housing, people needing to bid for larger houses etc, she also deals with death calls, when your bin doesn't get emptied, lost dogs etc etc, the council are just dumping more and more on the contact centre staff and not paying them anymore. She says some of the calls she gets are heartbreaking, people fleeing domestic violence and people sleeping on the streets she finds quite hard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 sorry, I thought you meants she was bidding. I find that with my council. you ring the number for the housing and you get the contact centre, so you have to tell them the problem, and they pass it on pray there is something to bid on tomorrow Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murtle Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 Another thing to check Jayne is hormones. Mine use to go through horrible stages and when I went on the pill it made things challenging but they have settled now (unless I forgot to take the pill) NLP can be great for many things (says the master prac!) and is really interesting. All that aside I hope you are feeling better soon xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gooster Posted September 9, 2014 Report Share Posted September 9, 2014 Thanks, I am on the pill, but have been on it for over 18 months, so am pretty settled on it. The doctor has given me some CBT websites to look at, so I'll have a look at that - I also have a few confidence books for horse riding that I'm going to dig out and read. Will have a look at the NLP as well. I am hoping that I am feeling brighter soon - I have a short trip away in a couple of weeks, so hopefully that should relax me and just recharge my batteries. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snow Posted September 10, 2014 Report Share Posted September 10, 2014 I am back in Bristol again today this time for a very dear friends funeral - not looking forward to the drive over as the roads were pretty awful on Friday when we had the sat nav and me to navigate and Rob driving, this time theres just me and the sat nav. Not sure what happens when the sat nav gets close to Bristol its like it gets completely confused and starts pointing one way and saying go the other way then changing its mind as soon as you switch lanes and can't get back to the lane you were in before it told you to change. The drive back won't be quite so bad as the wake is being held in Nailsea which is closer to the M5 so I won't have to go through Clifton & Bristol to get back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted September 10, 2014 Report Share Posted September 10, 2014 Snow, do you have the gps thing on your phone? i have a nokia and i can use it without my data on and it is really clever, it will adjust itself for different times of day to cover traffic delays Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happylittlegreensquirrel Posted September 10, 2014 Report Share Posted September 10, 2014 The little girls body washeD ashore late last night so now the family can have a funeral Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murtle Posted September 10, 2014 Report Share Posted September 10, 2014 Hugs Jayne, Snow and Sam. En route to London for work. Ben is enroute to france for work...hmmm.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snow Posted September 10, 2014 Report Share Posted September 10, 2014 Good that the girls family can have some closure now but what an awful thing to happen. Griff I've found a different route - have been on google looking for the pub the wake is being held in and on there it said it was only 10 mins drive from jnc 20 M5 so I had a look and whilst that means me going south of Bristol and overshooting where the crematorium is its actually a much easier route for me as I can just go M4 M49 M5 and then pretty much straight line past the pub and on to the crem - I'd be doing that route in reverse after the funeral anyway so may as well save faffing about and use that to get there as well, adds about 20 mins to the trip but takes off a whole load of anxiety for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owl Posted September 10, 2014 Report Share Posted September 10, 2014 Nothing can lessen the tragic loss of that little girl, but it would have been even harder if her body had not come ashore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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