Mommy Bear Posted June 2, 2014 Report Share Posted June 2, 2014 Loobie, so sorry to hear of your troubles. No advice other than to follow up previously recommended avenues for help and to say thinking of you and hoping things improve quickly. Bad news Ladies. James and Artem are leaving Strictlly ! Boo Hooooo. No point in watching Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted June 2, 2014 Report Share Posted June 2, 2014 but kevin from grimsby is there with his sister artem is on americas dancing with the stars. can we get there here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happylittlegreensquirrel Posted June 2, 2014 Report Share Posted June 2, 2014 Sorry to run on and not be positive but things are really not good here. Stan had to have major surgery for a blockage, then had a reaction to the anaesthetic that nearly killed him. My youngest baby Liam has been depressed for a while and has started self harming, he was admitted to hospital. My heart is breaking for him and I don't know what to do. I still have no job and am sinking financially, I can't pay the rent and barely afford to feed us. I am applying for jobs every day but hearing nothing back at all. I am scared to leave Liam alone (he is scared to be on his own too). My life is imploding on me and I can't see a way to stop it I'm sorry to bring the thread down I am so sorry to hear this Loobs, I don't know what to suggest but I would hope there are some benefits available that can help you with the rent / food Someone I knew became suicidal a few years back and tried to hurt themselves and their GP arranged for a mental health crisis team to get involved very quickly who were very helpful, I don't know if thats something that was just via their local health authority or if its a national thing but can you ask at your GP / hospital if there is a team to help you ? Sam x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murtle Posted June 2, 2014 Report Share Posted June 2, 2014 Sorry to hear your struggles Loobie. As well as previously mentioned places do you have a local food bank that you could use? xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loobie Posted June 2, 2014 Report Share Posted June 2, 2014 Thanks all xxxx Liam has been assessed by a psychologist and is still awaiting his urgent referral through CAMHS (child and adolescent mental health services). There seems to be less available and a lot slower as he is younger (15yrs) I am awaiting to hear about some benefit to help, and have been using food banks for a few weeks now. My landlord is not happy as I am behind with the rent and doesn't seem to want to wait till things get sorted All the while I am trying to find a job as well, as that is what I need to keep us afloat Only good thing is I still have Brian who is keeping me sane And I have just got back from the bank after finding out my card has been cloned?? And what money was in there has gone - ah well it can't get much worse lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happylittlegreensquirrel Posted June 2, 2014 Report Share Posted June 2, 2014 Loobs have sent you a PM , I know when Aisling was between jobs after her company lost its local contact and she was made redundant she tried to sign on and they were so slow at doing anything for her that she had found and started another job before they had made a decision on if she was eligible. Not quite the safety net it should be Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted June 2, 2014 Report Share Posted June 2, 2014 my sons coming home next week instead of july aaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh im sooooooo happy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gooster Posted June 2, 2014 Report Share Posted June 2, 2014 :grouphug: Loobie Glad your son is coming home Jazz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owl Posted June 2, 2014 Report Share Posted June 2, 2014 Loobie, I am sorry to hear you are beset by so many problems xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merledogs Posted June 3, 2014 Author Report Share Posted June 3, 2014 Loobie have a Moaning There's a particularly nasty virus on its way and there is a two week window to prepare (see Sky News link here). Also the usual applies, don't click on any links in emails or open attachments unless you are absolutely they are positive, especially if they come from someone you know and there seems to something a bit 'off' about the email. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted June 3, 2014 Report Share Posted June 3, 2014 morningggggg hope you all slept well. have a nice safe day xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sophie Posted June 3, 2014 Report Share Posted June 3, 2014 Loobie I'm so sorry things are going so badly at the moment. I really hope you can get the help and support you and your family need I lost all of yesterday to a migraine - went to bed at 9:30 on Sunday evening and didn't get up until 4:30 yesterday afternoon, with the exception of letting the dogs out for a wee twice. The dogs were so good - didn't ask for a walk or hassle me at all, just slept on the bed with me Love my dogs Head is mostly better today, but working from home in case it gets any worse again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted June 3, 2014 Report Share Posted June 3, 2014 Loobie, i am so sorry to hear of your troubles.... i wish i had some money to help you out... you could then just worry about your lovely son Merledogs, thanks for the link, my dad was telling me about that yesterday Jazz, glad your son is seeing you sooner than expected Sophie, hope you feel a lot better today Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murtle Posted June 3, 2014 Report Share Posted June 3, 2014 I forgot my notebook at home this morning. I am in London! I have 5 hours of meetings based on information in that book...my head is going to hurt by the end of the day! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted June 3, 2014 Report Share Posted June 3, 2014 ooo bl**dy hell Murtle, hope you manage to get through the day o.k. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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