Nettie Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 Oh Sam, I'm sorry, I feel really sad for you but if he's stubborn he's going to things his way. In my experience these parents of ours get more stubborn as they feel that roles might be reversing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jemimap Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 Thats the first time i've 'said' it. i've managed to only tell one or two people who need to know - work etc and even then i've skirted around it until they've understood. i'm going to go calm myself down again as i'm very up and down at the mo (mostly down) but thanks so much for being here. I will be back soon xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spins4me Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 (edited) So sorry to hear such sad news. Edited January 28, 2009 by Spins4me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rufus the wonderdog Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 Very sorry to hear your news Jemimap Has anyone heard from Mrs Muckychook lately Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jacqui d Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 Jemimap Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kats n greys Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 So sorry :GroupHug: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lazydaisy Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 Hello San, Marion & Wenders I'm sure i've missed loads and heavn't been around for ages, although its gone in the blink of an eye. I left my last job in July last year and started my new job in August they cheekily expected me to do some work and i wasn't able to tit about of the web all day Unfortunately in september my lovely dad was diagnosed with cancer and its been a whirr since then, i've thought of you all at different times but not felt strong enough to log on for more than a few minutes as to not mention it would've felt wrong/odd but i couldn't face posting it either. It looks like now we have only a few days left with him possibly a few weeks at best and to be honest i'm a bit lost as to what to do when i'm not with him. God that was self indulgent, sorry guys just wanted to sort of explain where i've been and why i've (must have) missed important events in my fugees friends lives. Its good to be back though Sorry to hear about your Dad ETA Wenders the 8 cups of coffee will take care of the next 2 hours as you'll be running to the loo and back! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
safneo Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 Thanks for the yoga info Spins. And will you please stop scaring strange men! Kazz, sorry to hear Tia still isnt well but glad to hear she is being moved nearer home. Do you think your ECG results could be linked to the stress you are feeling at the moment? Kelly, I'm sure that C did fine in his interview but I can understand that lack of confidence too. Its not something that you can really overcome easily. Jules, glad you finally have some support. Go and kick that bully bitch's @rse! Amy, have yhou booked Louie to do his GC silver yet? Bad news about the car. Have you got anyone who can look at if for you? Bloomin heck Wendy, you will be climbing the walls tonight! Sam, sorry to hear about your dad. I was wondering where Sarah was yesterday. I hope Flora is ok. I have booked a day off on Friday. I have a million and one things to do and never have enough time at the weekend. Also, I dont know what to do as we still have house on the market, doing it up to sell, and looking for a house. Have totally detached from this house and realised that with job situation at work I may not actually get another mortgage. I am now in limbo and dont know what to think. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owl Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 Jemimap, I am very sorry to hear about your dad rufus, muckychook emailed me a couple of days ago. She's taking some time off the forum. I'm sure we will see her back here before too long. Nite Fugees Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scotslass Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 I have just been to the doctors for results of my ECG on my heart. What else can go wrong. I have irregular dips along the lines of someone who has had a heart attack. That has been in last 2 years as the last one was clear. On a positive note my Cholestrol is 4. I have contacted the union again and I now have the full time officer assigned to me.I feel so relieved it's untrue.I will be speaking to him friday to sort out a face to face meeting when I can go throught the entire charade with him and rip them to pieces hopefully. Fingers crossed - glad you have proper support at last. Unfortunately in september my lovely dad was diagnosed with cancer and its been a whirr since then, i've thought of you all at different times but not felt strong enough to log on for more than a few minutes as to not mention it would've felt wrong/odd but i couldn't face posting it either. It looks like now we have only a few days left with him possibly a few weeks at best and to be honest i'm a bit lost as to what to do when i'm not with him. How sad. just spend as much time as you can with your dad, and do things his way, if you can. It's a hard thing to bear and my heart goes out to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendbert Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 Andrea RMF1: I'm slowing down on the coffee intake - just finished cup number 10 At least I should stay awake for the rest of the shift RMF2: Despite being on a diet where I have no real food, I am watching Masterchef on iPlayer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tobleronie Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 I want to have Andreas memory I read a bit then spend hours on rescue phone calls come back here and forget everything I've read so sorry if I don't mention or give thoughts to those that need them RMF: as above I think Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacobean Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 Where are you talking to us from now Wendy? The loo? I'm watching the soaps and eating fruit. Andrea it's really hard to know what to do. 2 houses in our close sold last week. I hope you manage to move and things go ok for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendbert Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 I'm at my desk still Earlier I thought I would be good and use the stairs so went down the 8 flights, no problem. Came back up, slipped between the 5th & 6th floors and hurt my hand I'll take the lift for the rest of the night Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
safneo Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 Andrea RMF1: I'm slowing down on the coffee intake - just finished cup number 10 At least I should stay awake for the rest of the shift RMF2: Despite being on a diet where I have no real food, I am watching Masterchef on iPlayer Are they making coffee? You will be awake all night when you could be snoozing! Dont you get headaches from too much coffee? I am trying to get used to coffee without sugar and its vile. I drink it in the hope that I will become accustomed but dont enjoy it Good nite Owl Mindy, I just click quote on all the posts I want to reply to then delete as I reply to them. My memory is pants these days. Wendy I hope you havent hurt your hand too much. Can you still hold your coffee? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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