Jazz Posted January 1, 2020 Report Share Posted January 1, 2020 Here we go again! Lets hope this year is the best ever! You are all special and loved, don't forget it xxxxxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suzeanna Posted January 1, 2020 Report Share Posted January 1, 2020 Hope 2020 gives you better health Jazz, and lots of lovely dogs to rehabilitate x 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suzeanna Posted January 1, 2020 Report Share Posted January 1, 2020 Great start to the year. My son phoned to say he and his wife are splitting up. I can't stop crying. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted January 1, 2020 Author Report Share Posted January 1, 2020 what a shame, and today to tell you! im sure they will be coming in soon, all the pups they regret getting, and old ones who don't like the pup Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owl Posted January 1, 2020 Report Share Posted January 1, 2020 Oh Suzeanna, so sorry to hear that. Hope they can manage an amicable split? A lot of fireworks at midnight but Wispa wasn't bothered. First ever calm NYE at home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yantan Posted January 1, 2020 Report Share Posted January 1, 2020 Oh no Suzeanna 🥺 What an awful start to the new year. We got some early fireworks which Tye slept through but the ones around midnight were closer and he got himself into a panic. He tried to escape them by going under the desk next to my bed but had some boxes to shift first. He managed to make a hole for himself and cowered under there. Fortunately the fireworks lasted only a few minutes and there was nothing afterwards. He came out when he heard Ruby get up to go to the bathroom a little later and was sitting on my bed ready to be petted as she passed by on her way back. He slept soundly after that. I wish I could say the same! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suzeanna Posted January 1, 2020 Report Share Posted January 1, 2020 Glad to hear Wispa was fine, and Tye not too bad. You'll know next time Yantan, to make him a safe place in advance. Mark said they'll sell the house, Julie will move back to Stranraer with the twins and he and Aidan will move up near to us. So sad for the twins, they adore their daddy and it'll be a big upheaval for Aidan, he's 11 this month. I'm worried about the money aspect, Mark will end up broke I think. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted January 1, 2020 Report Share Posted January 1, 2020 Oh gosh Suzeanna, that is so awful... hopefully maybe given a little time they will be able to sort things out....poor kids Pleased most dogs did quite well with the fireworks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suzeanna Posted January 1, 2020 Report Share Posted January 1, 2020 I don't think so Griff. When Mark phoned he said he can't stand her any more. Don't think that will change. I sent her a FB message, just saying I hadn't realised this would be the last time I'd see her and the kids, nothing nasty, then Mark texted and said Julie says please tell your mum not to message me. Ok don't worry, I've taken her off my FB and her details off my phone. It doesn't bode well for the future, she's the sort who will try to stop him seeing the twins, and I don't know how different the laws are in Scotland about that sort of thing. Aghhh! Anyone who thinks once their kids are grown up they don't need to worry about them is wrong! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted January 1, 2020 Report Share Posted January 1, 2020 Suzeanna, tell him to put all the paperwork in place now, it costs about £40 and you and Philip have rights too as grandparents xx 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted January 1, 2020 Report Share Posted January 1, 2020 https://www.mygov.scot/parental-responsibilities-rights/fathers/ just looked that up, it's no different to the UK, so she can't take away his right to see the children, will most likely just make things difficult 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted January 1, 2020 Author Report Share Posted January 1, 2020 talking of the law. I was sure it was always there, 'common wife' so after 2 years, they had rights. Lewis was looking it up, and its never been law.is there a different word? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted January 1, 2020 Report Share Posted January 1, 2020 No jazz, I believe it's a common misconception there's no such thing as a common law wife/ husband when it comes to separating and finances....unless you have put money into a joint bank account, both names are on the mortgage/ rent account etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted January 1, 2020 Author Report Share Posted January 1, 2020 pre nups arnt legal here either. I think we see so much American programmes here, we think that normal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eve Posted January 1, 2020 Report Share Posted January 1, 2020 So sorry to hear your news Suzeanna. One tiny little bit of light for you is your son and grandson will be living near you. And you're right, you never stop worrying however old they get. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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