griff Posted May 7, 2017 Report Share Posted May 7, 2017 I don't think he has Asperger or is autistic having just looked it up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted May 7, 2017 Author Report Share Posted May 7, 2017 you was nice and helped him out. he sees that as weak. too many of them people around to prey on people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owl Posted May 7, 2017 Report Share Posted May 7, 2017 People with Aspergers or autism can be very different as individuals. I am very high on the Asp scale but women on the spectrum tend to be much better at acquiring social skills than men. I know a young man with Aspergers who copes with any change in routine very badly but is full of mischief and teases and winds up his family. He does not mind if they do the same to him. I can cope with changes much better, but I take everything literally and get into a state or walk off if anyone makes fun of me or winds me up. Probably the best way to deal with a possible Asp is by being logical and explaining how you feel and why you are annoyed, because he/she may not have a clue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted May 7, 2017 Report Share Posted May 7, 2017 Owl, I honestly don't think that is what the problem is with Steve, all he ever did was blame problems on me...try to make me feel bad and awful for being angry...for instance, the thing that finished all this was the fact he was to give me £50...i repeatedly asked for the money and he lied over and over and then wouldn't drive 10mins down the road to give it me even though I had told him I desperately needed it...yet it was my fault that he had had to give me the money!! He lies constantly and I believe he has been like that his while life...he isn't my problem now and I know it will drive him mental that I have been the one to tell him to do one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owl Posted May 7, 2017 Report Share Posted May 7, 2017 Sounds more like narcissism than autism then. Habitual liars are a pain. They just mess everything up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted May 8, 2017 Author Report Share Posted May 8, 2017 ive waited 5 months to go to the zoo, for my Christmas present, and im too ill to go. ive told them to go without me as they have bought the tickets Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suzeanna Posted May 8, 2017 Report Share Posted May 8, 2017 That's a shame Jazz, but to be honest there's such a ruddy cold wind (well, here at least) that you probably wouldn't have enjoyed it anyway. There's always another time. Whatever was wrong with Candy has vanished, thank heavens, so we took her to the kennels with a great sense of relief, I'd have hated to leave her there if she wasn't right. Now to cope with a dithering husband! He has to be there for 2.30 and they say be prepared to be there all afternoon...I've loaded my Kindle in advance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted May 8, 2017 Report Share Posted May 8, 2017 Awww Jazz, i am sorry you can't make it to the zoo Owl, yes, i think you could be right Suzeanna, pleased Candy is better and i hope philips op goes well anyone know how long second class letters take to arrive at their destination....i.e, in the same city? it was sent friday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted May 8, 2017 Author Report Share Posted May 8, 2017 good luck today xxx ive had 2nd class get there the next day Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted May 8, 2017 Report Share Posted May 8, 2017 Ahhh right, thanks Jazz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yantan Posted May 8, 2017 Report Share Posted May 8, 2017 2nd class latest for the same place should be today Griff. Steve sounds like either an arch manipulator or clueless eejit to me. I'm glad Candy's problem, whatever it was, disappeared. I hope Phil's appt. went well though as I write this I guess you will still be waiting. Jazz It's another nice day here but I don't know where the time has gone to thus far. I haven't been doing anything in particular but the day is just zooming by for some reason! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suzeanna Posted May 8, 2017 Report Share Posted May 8, 2017 Still waiting. We might get home tonight! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted May 8, 2017 Report Share Posted May 8, 2017 Thanks Yantan...no doubt he will deny having received the letter..i basically told him the money s to be paid no later than 24th each month, to deal with my parents from here on and that i wasn't being nasty or horrible but putting my affairs in order and i needed to ensure everything was all set up...to be honest, the money was my life savings..not a lot to show for 37 years on earth is it? the money was supposedly to get me to marrakech but i am too ill to ever go so it is money for the girls when i am gone, won't get them much, maybe a years worth of food but at least i will feel like i have helped towards their care a little bit Suzeanna, i do hope you manage to get the op done today...and you get home a half decent hour Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted May 8, 2017 Author Report Share Posted May 8, 2017 I hope you get done today xxx I gave the boys all my savings last year. it will pay for my funeral and a bit over Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owl Posted May 8, 2017 Report Share Posted May 8, 2017 Reading back, I see Yantan is a Shark fan. I have had one for about 18 months now, the first one before they brought out the pet version. It is still one mean beast, and you have to be sure the floorboards are well nailed down before you use it hehe. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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