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  1. I was sitting at the computer in a bit if a mess cos it was the anniversary of losing Teddy Texas when I came across this so guess who is coming to the uk at the end of April .
  2. My turn to for lateness . Thank you I hopethings are well with you. Seasons greetings from the crew to all th e friends out there.
  3. Its just been his "gotcha" week. Work in his name is starting to take shape. He had a big heart to leave so much love behind.. xx
  4. it was originally running a silly vote thing alongsid e this...seems to have disappearred after day one..wonder why.
  5. Outside o rin shed The fluids get sluggish in the extra cold thats when they cut out. Th e thickest bit settles in then in the compressor . Contact fit a sump heater or a wine making tray to the compressor and provide it with power. Inside by radiator... there's as special plug that switches off the power when the ff is working economically. This can help balance out the extra power required to cool as an allowance for the heat from the radiator. Also use blue ice packs used in freezer boxes to fill any voids and also remove excess packing .
  6. Thank you everyone. Its going to be hard without him, both efor me an d the girls, who keep looking for him. I am going to keep his memory alive by leaving his name on our rescue support projects.
  7. The adventure ends, but will not be forgotten for a very long time. Teddy Texas, loving to the last when we snuggled this morning , has left us. From now on the universe will be commanded from else where. Those still here lament his leaving but rejoice in the changes that he started.
  8. But they do all talk to one another and know who has a list of wants , as most of them specialise. I dont think they want sole rights.
  9. The local rescues I know will all advertise direct rehoming and help/support/asess etc....but they may make a charge in advance because it is an easy situation to abuse ( I know you wouldnt) and some have got a bit fed up with the number of incidents where they do a lot of work and then ignored or bypassed. So you will have to ask nicely. i am sure you will be alright.
  10. You can get replacament parts for Dyson.. quick from their services dept or really cheap off Ebay. A quick tips put a deoderiser pad in the outlet filter... put a cut section of flea collar in the bag..... service and clean the insides.
  11. lester

    Lungworm

    They were not so quick to get on the bandwagon. I blame people who cant be bothered cleaning their yards properly and the spread of decking . Of course the weather doesnt help.
  12. Well I put Pagan-Wiccan ; I hope the Council dont readit as I have told them I am a follower of the Cult of Anubis for planning purposes.
  13. I would worry about the time that this is taking. Or is the price an issue?
  14. Off to Asda and buy a glucose curve test set around a tenner. and then move over to a non rice food.
  15. You can spend lots of money on it or http://www.copperridge.co.uk/ plus green algae treatment from HG ......but you need a spraying licence so i will do it for you for that large amount of money.
  16. Hi , I have been trying to think of some way of helping since i first read this. Sadly I cant sort anything out except the possibility of somebody from lncashire travelling to talk the dog out for a walk. I cant take in at the mo because of an aggro problem betwqeen two ofthe existing residents ,( and am in Brum so its a bit silly) You mention Facebook , but My searchs turn up nothing that might lead to you. Can you give me the addy .
  17. All the best of thoughts to you at this time from me, Teddy Texas and the crew. Its a certain kind of brave to share sometimes, but it can offer a some help. Never apologise for it.
  18. She seems to be a typical Bully. They still exist in real life as not all of them have discovered the possibilitie of tinternet. They automatically pick on people that seem to have weaknesses they can focus on. Some people attract all kinds of bullies throughout life ( like me . but not actually weak..shame I never learned to give in before it was too late ( or check for witnesses first)) someonly attract the odd one now and again. You should get leaflets-- look into this find out all about it and discuss it as much as possible. Ask her if they do bully counselling at her university. Its quite interesting.
  19. Clutching at straws really but..can you tell us more about the insulin type and method please.
  20. If boots come off easy trying padding out the top with a section of foam pipe insulation ( inside) . It get s good grip without putting on any pressure.
  21. Help please .. I need to know its been driving me mad ,what is the answer to the remaing one????
  22. I am glad you did. I see that you are suggesting that an interest in fetishes is the same as a "sex life ". Shame . However to answer the point. I took the an approach that was non confrontational because I think that had it been financial /socially possible the relationship would have parted suddenly when this firsty cropped. There is therefore some reason for it continuing so its time top look for a middle ground , a way forward before to soils become deeply anguished. (Very old fashioned counselling training showing her but it was the 70s ) I get the impression that the "break" and " finding out her own needs" scenario are way back down the line judging by some of the phrases used and the fact that the plea is posted in such a place as this. Its very easy to take sides and try and be judgemental from a lofty postion , but the OP is looking for help and I thinks it important to offer a fair and broadbased range of possibilities rathet than forcing her into a tight framework of predisposed conditioning, especially as she may actually act upon what she reads. Sorry It wasnt me that followed the depression thread , that was in others posts. I avoided it. Depression today has become a shibboleth of a uncaring system. Saying that this case revolves around Depression is about the same , but slightly less likely than saying it is a result of witchcraft;; (Come back R.D Lang all is forgiven, everyones gone freud) And i have to stick up for "plenty of loving, fun, supportive, caring men out there" even if I refuse to be one. Most of them are looking for a relationship that may be seen as a bit old fashioned these days in which both parties enjoy pleasing the other.
  23. A lot of the answer depends on what you mean by " going along with" But first. I get the impression that the OH is to a degree in a "loner" situation. He must find himself a way of divorcing from the guilt/ . wicked / naughty aspect of the fetish involved. Has he sought out others with an interest in the same things. There is a an amazing network out there for all kind of enjoyments of this nature that offer straightforward social activities and support systems over and above the kinky stuff. ( including very cheap caravan camping) There are many other partners that have found it easier to support a loved ones interests without any direct involvement and these usually form the basis for a worthwhile support systems and organise there own activities and form solid friendships as a result.. It is always really helpful to talk to someone that has gone through the same thing to put your ownfears into perspective. Keeping it all to yourself is marginally worse than discussing it with those that have no idea whatsover about the interest that people get into these days as we all live longer and can find those of kindred interest so easy via the electronic network.
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