chuckey-lee Posted October 25, 2009 Report Share Posted October 25, 2009 hiya all, long time no see lol,I haven't been here for a while,mostly cuz I was too busy with my boys 'n pets but also cuz I had much going on here at home,as you can gather from the title lol anyway,to get to the point,after 9yrs together and married for 2 ,Ive finally come to the desission the man I thought I was in love with didn't really exist and we're better off each in our own places.The kids can go when they like but the dogs and cat are coming with me.We are staying in the same town to keep it easy for the kids.Ive already got a new place and will post piccies as soon as Ive got internet up there,got a stunning garden and a lovely 3bed bungalow well, it was short but I just wanted to let you guys know myself before any vicious rumours start circulating ;),hope you're all well, lots of love, Vivian -xxx- ps I'll finally be able to give my Chuck's ashes a dignefyed place instead of hidden in the cupboard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
safneo Posted October 25, 2009 Report Share Posted October 25, 2009 Flippin 'eck thats a shock Vivian. Glad to see that you are moving forward though....onward and upward. Life is too short as they say. Look forward to seeing pics of the new place. Sounds lovely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BillyMalc Posted October 25, 2009 Report Share Posted October 25, 2009 Hey hun, big and I hope it'll all go well for you, the boys and the animals in the family. Looking forward to piccies of your new abode Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kats n greys Posted October 25, 2009 Report Share Posted October 25, 2009 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rumpole Posted October 25, 2009 Report Share Posted October 25, 2009 so sorry things didnt work out, all the very best for your new life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rufus the wonderdog Posted October 25, 2009 Report Share Posted October 25, 2009 Sending for you. Know how difficult this time is as I am in a similar place Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chuckey-lee Posted October 25, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 25, 2009 thanks foogee-family ,it's the usual s**t ,husband is being an a********le about ,can't wait for my beautiful new place and move on,hopefully end of the month,so any day now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helly Posted October 25, 2009 Report Share Posted October 25, 2009 congratulations on your new beginnings. I hope you find happiness in your new circumstances Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted October 26, 2009 Report Share Posted October 26, 2009 im sorry to hear that, but good luck with your new life xxxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suzeanna Posted October 26, 2009 Report Share Posted October 26, 2009 Sorry things didn't work out for you, but good for you to do something about it rather than drag on for years in a miserable relationship. I hope your future is bright and happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lazydaisy Posted October 26, 2009 Report Share Posted October 26, 2009 Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chuckey-lee Posted October 26, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 26, 2009 Sending for you. Know how difficult this time is as I am in a similar place sorry to hear that hun,can i ask how you are dealing with it? I find it very hard,specially since my boys 3&7 are involved and being used by my stb-ex-husband to score cheap points Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rufus the wonderdog Posted October 26, 2009 Report Share Posted October 26, 2009 sorry to hear that hun,can i ask how you are dealing with it? I find it very hard,specially since my boys 3&7 are involved and being used by my stb-ex-husband to score cheap points Hate it when ex's use the kids to score cheap points - so unfair, especially for the children Will PM you soon for a 'chat' Chin up - we women are amazingly strong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chasta Posted October 26, 2009 Report Share Posted October 26, 2009 A from another one going through the same thing right now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Houndwoman Posted October 26, 2009 Report Share Posted October 26, 2009 Been there Vivian but thankfully no children involved so it was easier for me. Wishing you all the very best in your new life and I am sure you will have much more peace of mind Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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