houndzrus Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 I am going to spend the rest of my life with my heart thinking "if only.........." but my boy deserves to be so much happier than he is at the moment That just about sums up your unselfishness. You are only trying to do the best by Bailey, and in doing that, there is nothing anyone on this earth could critisize you for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
celeste Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 thats so so sad, my friend had to do the same thing a few years ago, it broke her heart and she still thinks of him but she knows it was the right decision, i think your being very brave and sensible Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lil_angel Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rufus the wonderdog Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 Unfortunately the hardest decisions are often the most painful. You and your family are being selfless and you have given Bailey everything you can. Sometimes love isnt enough to fix things. I think you are very brave and wise in your decisions, and send love and hope to you, your family and Bailey for a positive future I agree totally with the above. Loving our dogs and doing the best thing for them and us is all we can do. Bailey will always know the love you gave him. to you all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanrossscot Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 for you and your family. As has been said before the right descision is often the hardest and it shows how much you love Bailey that you can put him and his needs before yours Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GSDFan Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 It must be an incredibly hard thing for you to do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tracey.s Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 Having been in your situation, i know how hard it is. Noone has the right to judge you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phoenix21 Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 what a horrible decision to make 3 years is a blooming long time for you to try and make it work - thats dedication and it takes a good and strong person to admit when things just aint going to ever work...love to you and your family Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lazydaisy Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 You are very brave making this decision, it must have been sooo hard. to you, your children and Bailey. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cockergirl Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 Really sorry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helen Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 :GroupHug: Sarah. A very brave decision to have to make. Lots of special thoughts for you all coming from us up here Meg wishes her partner in 'peg leggedness' all the best for his future. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kats n greys Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 Sarah & family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gemstone Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 So sorry Sarah You have to get the balance right for your family though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jakeysmum Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 I'm sorry you have had to make this decision, I can understand it totally I have young children and whilst my dogs have our company most of the day the evenings are often spent driving my girls from one activity or another. I wouldn't want to be in a position where I couldn't do it because one of the dogs couldn't be left. Try not to worry, the right home for him is probably just around the corner. Big hugs to you and yours xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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