ReikiAnge Posted July 16, 2009 Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 Sorry you met with such an unhelpful Dr Hope the rest of your pregnancy goes very smoothly from now on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amanda Jvv Posted July 16, 2009 Author Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 Thank you all for your support and lovely words Amanda, I miscarried at 13 weeks and was terrified of the same happening when I got pregnant with Ellis. Bceause of previous miscarriage, they scanned me regularly and I did have a couple of minor [but scary] bleeds early in the pregnancy.You really must take it easy and don't be fobbed off my Doctors who think thy know best. It's your baby and your body, you know it better than anyone else. Take care of yourself and take folic acid if you're not doing so already. I'm sorry you went through that. I think this is the most frustrating part for me is not being listened to. Having been told I miscarried 3 weeks ago and because I'm still pregnant they conclude that I miscarried a twin. Ok fine, its confusing and now very scary because in the back of your mind you wonder if the same will happen within the same pregnancy but now you have something to lose you already love! It's the rollercoaster of emotion! I would have thought they would have scheduled me in for regular scans to check that everything is going ok given what already happened but honestly they dont seem bothered. I try not to overeact because I know they have seen it all but fobbing me off with "it's just psychological" is really unhelpful!I have a midwife appointment next week so hopefully she will listen to me and talk me through all I need to know. The bleeds for me are scary because they are sudden last for 4-6hrs and are a lot. If it was like a semi normal period it might not freak me out so much. I did say to the dr I understand bleeds are common but the quantity, given it looked like the quantity of what happened before - freaked me out and if they dont give me all the information it makes for a paranoid me! But what will be will be and I am doing my best to stay relaxed and healthy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incapuppy Posted July 16, 2009 Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 Sending lots of love and good wishes for you and Tony Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owl Posted July 16, 2009 Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 Hope it all settles down now. Very scary for you, and not very helpful of the A&E doctor. Is sproglet the youngest ever Fugee to have his/her pics posted on site? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ranirottie Posted July 16, 2009 Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 So glad that everything is ok with you and baby. Wishing you a safe and easy pregnancy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amanda Jvv Posted July 16, 2009 Author Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 Is sproglet the youngest ever Fugee to have his/her pics posted on site? Good question. I guess 'start as you mean to go on'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rufus the wonderdog Posted July 16, 2009 Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 Hoping that everything goes OK with the pregnancy from now on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReikiAnge Posted July 16, 2009 Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 Is sproglet the youngest ever Fugee to have his/her pics posted on site? Do you think that means we get to name them? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amanda Jvv Posted July 17, 2009 Author Report Share Posted July 17, 2009 Do you think that means we get to name them? Ha hahaha - I'm too afraid to say yes to that one! I have visions of 'Fugee Sproglet' being polled most popular. Once we know if its a he or she I will certainly ask for inspiration. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phoebejo Posted July 17, 2009 Report Share Posted July 17, 2009 If it's a boy it's got to be Dave Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amanda Jvv Posted July 22, 2009 Author Report Share Posted July 22, 2009 All going well so far. I'm 9weeks+1 day and 'bean' is 24mm long! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rufus the wonderdog Posted July 22, 2009 Report Share Posted July 22, 2009 All going well so far. I'm 9weeks+1 day and 'bean' is 24mm long! Well Done Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparkle Posted August 18, 2009 Report Share Posted August 18, 2009 Hows "the bean" doing Amanda?? And your lovely self of course!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amanda Jvv Posted August 19, 2009 Author Report Share Posted August 19, 2009 I'll start a new thread with happy news :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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