rascaljigandmossop

Wow

Thinking of you x

Clare Sweeney yuk yuk yuk !

congratulations

On my second Mirena here too , changed in sept , not the most pleasant experience due to the Dr not being able to find strings but they got it out eventually , and the new one in , so many more years of lighter periods I hope. Mine didnt stop , but from how they were I can now get on with my life instead of planning trips around toilets , and carrying huge amounts of "supplies" when it was "that time"

Morning , havent posted here for ages (although I lurk plenty during work hours lately ). I have been very preoccupied with my nasty divorce which is getting worse at the moment , but I do keep up with whats happening cos I am very nosy I suppose , but hello to everyone anyway

Ooh me too , I'm seeing him at the comedy club in Liverpool , cant wait. Taking bf who has never heard of him

Amber

Left my job yesterday and one of my leaving pressies was a gorgeous heart shaped box of Belgian chocs Came down this morning to a wet and pooey kitchen (nothing new there ) and my lovely box of chocs shredded Thankfully there was only about 4 chocs gone , which between 4 dogs probably isnt too bad , although I dont know which dogs have ate them ( obviously I will observe them , but they all seem ok ) But I reckon I know who reached them down for the others to shred the box ........... This guilty lad George

Off to work shortly for my last day in this job I like it and will miss it and my colleagues lots) I am only moving because I need to work mon - fri 9-5 not shifts and nights , as I need to be around to keep my increasingly delinquent 15 yr old son in check ) a battle which I am failing dismally at I might add. Bizzarrely his dad has actually been quite helpful during this last bout of delinquentness (sp? ) Could it be because the divorce is now under way . Pity he hadnt been for the last 2 years ,then I wouldnt be leaving a job I like very much Hopefully my new one (I start march 6th ) will be ok. On a brighter note ex is having aforementioned son for the whole weekend while bf and myself have a break , we should have been going to Warsaw in March , but ex decided he needed to be in Morrocco on his millionth holiday in 2 years, so I have had to cancel It is good he is having his son , they need to spend time together and bond , and to he honest I need a break from him , as do his brother and sister , but I cant help feeling a bit miffed that I am not catching a plane somewhere. Apologies for being a moaning moo.

Well done you for indulging yourself sorry you felt sick though

Welcome to the world of "children from hell" seriously though I know how you must feel , hopefully she has just been led a little bit astray and will learn her lesson , dont know what else to say so sending a

Only just caught up with this Bebe ,his initial is P maybe its his long lost twin !! This is the man who claims that if I try to get money from him I will fail as he has no income and no assets ( read that as self employed with a dodgy accountant !) amazing how he has found himself on holiday in the Gambia this week isnt it !!!!

Thank you all for sharing your experiences in this post. It is only recently I have come to realise I was in one of those relationships and I am so glad I am out. I am so much happier now and it is reassuring to hear I am not alone - I spent five years trying to keep the peace at home, feeling inadecuate and believing it was all my fault... Caroline I spent the last 2 years of my marriage trying to "keep the peace" , I became a referee in this house . I used to wish he would have an affair so that I would have a "legitimate" reason to leave him. He wasnt always like that I dont think , I put it down to a mid life crisis! I was always making excuses for him to the kids such as "he is tired" he is stressed" but I used to feel like one of the kids myself , I dont know why I tried to hold it together for so long , my biggest regret is that I stayed even after he spat in my daughters face ! I am deeply ashamed of that .Since we have split he still thinks he can control things , he wont have a discussion about the kids unlesss HE wants too , if he doesnt like whats being said he will walk off. He reckons that unreasonable behaviour is unacceptable grounds for our divorce , and that he wont answer solicitors letters if he doesnt like the contents ! and yet most people who know him think he is such a great bloke , he is very popular and well thought of. To anyone in a controlling relationship , I would say "making the break is very scary , but to be able to relax in your own home with your own kids and not be making allowances for someone elses behaviour all the time is such a good feeling , it is not without problems , but I havent regretted it for a single second"

Sign me up then ! I'm Karen , 46 , but feel about 26 most of the time , occasionaly feel about 86 I live just outside Liverpool , with Rascal scruffdog aged 8ish , Jig whippet x aged 9ish , George scruffbag aged 2 ish and Declan small scruffbag aged 2ish , I also live with Joe 20 , Sinead 17 and hooligan Billy aged 15 , I have another daughter Rhiannon who no longer lives here , we also have 2 goldfish types in a tank , and lots of outdoor fish and frogs in a pond , I am in the throes of getting divorced at the moment and enjoying the single life once more