It's a hard call Jazz You will do what is best, you always do.
Saw a sad sight today someone I knew from years ago was in the queue at the supermarket,in her hand was 2 cans of Pimms. When I came out, she was sat in her car drinking one, she had been "dry" for several years, just feel so sorry such an addiction or illness causes so much unhappiness.
Sorry Jazz, I was posting the same time as you.