My boss is lovely, I love my job, but..........
I was taken on as an administrator/accounts person - 30 hours a week. Since the start of May I've worked 2 x 6 day weeks and about 9 houirs overtime on top of that. I'm working the same basic hours that my predecessor did, only our turnover has more than doubled. I worked 50 mins extra yesterday, and was told I could leave early today - it's #3 son's 12th birthday, so that worked nicely. When I got in this morning, my boss needed another intensive project done (as part of the stuff I'd been doing yesterday) as well as the day to day admin, so instead of leaving 50 mins early, I got to leave 15 mins early.
My boss is one of those people that nobody ever says no to - he asks you to do things, and you find yourself doing them because he's so nice and you can't think of a good enough reason not to do as he asks, but just occasionally, I'd like to be able to leave 'on time' and get home to my family (especiallly as my OH works weird shifts, so we only spend 2 weekends in every 5 together).
Now I know you are going to say -'why don't you tell him how you feel'. I don't because I've got myself into such a state about it that as soon as I start to think about it, I start to cry
Would it be appropriate to put it in an email, and what do I say?