Thankyou for the hugs and stuff
I drove home for the weekend to report him as missing to the police etc and he has been found, but doesn't want the police to tells us where he is, we know where he is and it was us that told the police where to look I spent about 2hrs on the phone to him last night after I got home listening to him waffle on about how he feels etc etc etc and how he doesn't see how a psychiatrist can help him, what do they know about life and his problems, cause all they know they learnt from books he says he feels nothing for Mum and the rest of us and he's just been going through the motions for years for our benefit all this is over a woman who rejected him, who is apparently the light of his life and the only person that makes him feel anything inside needless to say I'm not talking to him because I don't care what he feels about me and mine but to say what he did about Mum is downright unforgivable as far as I'm concerned