I wear my lenses for 17 hours a day & they're comfortable the whole time (but they weren't always*) I wear Acuvue Oasys with HydraclearPlus, not sure if they'd be suitable for you but worth asking. I use Opti-Free Replenish solution which has been a godsend.
* when my optician first started me on these lenses he advised me to use another solution and I hated the lenses from the beginning, my eyes were constantly dry & were even worse when I took the lenses out. My vision deteriorated but my optician treated me like I was an idiot so I got a second opinion at Boots opticians. The contact lense specialist there spotted immediately that I was allergic to the solution I was using, it was making my eyes so dry that the lenses were almost welded to my cornea and every time I took them out they were taking cells from my cornea with them which was causing the problems with my vision
Since changing to the Opti-Free solution my vision has improved and I hardly notice I'm wearing the lenses. It's for silicone hydrogel and soft lenses, I'd definitely recommend it if it's suitable for your lenses but it's really important to soak the lenses for at least the minimum time.
Keep trying different lenses until you find the right ones for you and get a second opinion if you're not happy