wendywoo1972

William Boyce Wardley aka BillyBoy aka (at the moment) Marcus, Fred. he is a little sweetheart Kathy

Thank you Cyas. This comment sums up so much. It was put across to me that I had commited an illegal act which could leave me being prosecuted. What makes me so angry in all of this is the fact that I didnt wake up one morning and think hey I know I am going to go searching on my computer looking for this sort of thing. I woke up and had an email saying someone had left a comment on my photo blog.... I read the comment and was totally shocked and horrified that someone could write/think thoughts of my daughter. My reaction and my husbands reaction in that moment were oh my who on earth would write such a thing. We googled a username we did not google anything else. A list of links came up when I clicked on that link I had no idea what I was stumbling on. The policeman said just by searching that mans name I commited an offence. He seemed to not grasp I did not ever go out looking for this. It came to my door step. To then be told you are a criminal and possibly will be prosecuted the distress and fear I felt in that moment I can not put into words. When I broke down I was asked why are you being emotional. I expressed to him that I am not trained as an officer of the law to look at what I had looked at how I cant erase what I saw from my mind forgive me if I have a heart and have emotion I also expressed my concern that if I was prosecuted what that means for me having a daughter to even be linked to something like that the impact of what he was accusing me of and bunching me together with when all I wanted to do was help the police in finding the criminals I was suddenly being accused of the most unthinkable. I was never once advised not to save the content why oh why didnt they tell me dont save anything it is illegal when I phoned up to report this??? I would not be where I am today.... I fully support the police in searching out and catching these people I really do I do not support the manner in which I have been treated. I have no problem in them taking my computer. I do have a problem that my photos my documents my reciepts from banking transactions and so much will now be deleted forever, I was not given an opportunity to save my personal things and certainly was not told at the time that my whole hard drive will be wiped I thought one day I would get my photos back . It seems so little but lesson learned to keep my future documents backed up. Right now I have one piece of paper in my possesion saying that my computer has been siezed as evidence since it contains indecent images of children. I feel sick every time I look at it. I have nothing that says I was in fact a witness and not a criminal My emotion in all of this probably means I am not expressing things well please know that if the same thing happened again I would report it, but of course I now know never to save anything just to report it, but the impact this is having on my life I cannot explain. Thank you owl. I certainly am going to be seeking legal advise on tuesday, I was advised about ceop after reporting to the police as the phone rang to say they were coming around I was actually looking on the website, the police phoned and I thought that is ok they will now deal with this I never ever expected what followed I was so happy that the police were coming around and finally something was going to be done

Hello all, I have not had a chance yet to read through the whole thread. My computer has been siezed as evidence. Technically I have commited a crime because I copied the website to my computer incase it was closed down before the police could view it. I could indeed be charged for commiting a crime. The CID spoke with me today and assured me that right now they are treating me as a witness not a criminal, my computer will be gone for at least a year and when it is returned to me my whole hard drive will be wiped. I never went looking for any of this it came to my door step the policeman who came into my house this morning was very aggressive towards me until Johan came home, my daughter is in pieces because she saw her mother sobbing with a strange man in the house she tried to comfort me and wiped my eyes with a baby wipe. Nobody has been able to garuntee me that I will not at some point be charged with the crime of having indecent images on my computer, even though I thought I was helping the police by doing this and by their own admitance most people would make the same mistake as me as a natural reaction but ignorance is not a defence. Also they accepted that they should have come out to me yesterday but they didnt know how to handle the situation so that is why it was left until the following day. I do not regret calling the police.... because it will be investigated but I do feel a huge weight on my shoulders that I have been treated as I have today. And that I dont know what will come of this.

I got a response from the site that the comment was made about Lydia Hi Wendy, Thanks so much for reporting this to us. However, I'm afraid that there's not much we can do. The person posted that comment anonymously on your blog without an account, so there's virtually no information we can use to trace it. I encourage you to turn anonymous commenting off so people will have to have an account to comment on your blog. Sorry that this happened... There's always a few bad apples that ruin the Internet for everyone. Let me know if you have any other questions. Sincerely, Also I spoke to some people today and a closer look at the site that I found on the web shows some pictures of children posed I am so distressed by this. My Mum phoned scotland yard today they took my contact information but still nothing back from anyone. I really really feel someone needs to get this page off of the web or do something I just want someone to tell me they are doing something about it

I absoloutly agree with what you are saying. Lydias site was upsetting enough but it was the search on the person who posted that led me to another site filled with pictures of children in very innocent situations... I am not sure if someone has taken these pictures without other peoples knowledge certainly in most pictures the people did not seem to be aware of a photograph being taken. The comments on there were pure filth and people being asked to see more or sent more images of children like this.... My concern is someone has taken these pictures without someones consent and those images are being passed around and fantasized about by this sick people but what if the information of where these children can be found is being passed on.... Something needs to happen to remove that site off of the web or at least investigate where these images have come from investigate the person begging for more or that stated what they intend to do I have now locked my blog and contacted the owner of the site and I have learned a big big lesson about my internet usage but you had to see the site and see the comments to understand my feelings over this. Im not just being a hysterical mother

Please think about stopping. The site I refer to had pictures of children that are innocent holiday snaps and such. Parents like you are I have posted them I imagine for friends to see... Someone has taken them posted them on another site and the comments are sick sick sick sick sick and people putting emails up saying send me more like this of children looking like this... I will never ever forget what I saw this morning and will do what ever I can to get the message out there to anyone who will listen.

I havent been posting for a long time.... All for personal reasons a lot of saddnes in my life that has left me taking a break from forums in general. I do however keep a photoblog of Lydia and post her pictures up. This morning however something happened that has made me re think this and also concerned me enough to phone the police and report what I viewed on the web. I am so disturbed by what I saw I just want to ask any of you to really think about the pictures you post of your children and where you post them. someone left a comment on one of my blog entries asking to see pictures of lydia without her nappy on. Also leaving an email address for me to send them to. As you can imagine I felt sick to my stomach and immediatly asked Johan to come and see. He took the persons username and did a google search. One of the hits that I got back is another totally different blogging site. With pictures of children in very innocent situations. On the beach on holiday those sort of pics . All girls all different ages. The words and comments that were written underneath I can not bring myself to re type. I burst into tears each time I think about it. It is pure filth unimaginable That is just one site I didnt look any furthur..... Please all of you really really think about where you are posting your pictures and how secure they are from the sick filth that is out there in the world. I am not posting what sites these pictures were found or any names becasue I am so hoping that the police WILL take this seriously enough to investigate what I reported to them this morning. But if I can get just one person to re think posting their childrens pictures anyway that is not secure then its something. I am sorry if I have upset anyone by posting this but It needs to be said becasue I would hate for anyone to read the things that I saw this morning. Or to have some stranger looking at their child and thinking the thoughts that some pixie thought about my daughter today

Beautiful Beautiful Beautiful... You have a lovely family and a very cute little baby there. Doesnt it go so fast one minute babe in arms and the next minute they are growing up and you wonder when and how it happened

Lots of positive thoughts being sent for baby Lucy and her Mummy

After Frodo Died. I was contacted by Kathyw, she had contacted Moo&Boo Wendy and arranged with her to do a painting of my beautiful boy. I dont have the words to express how touched I was by her kindness, thoughtfullness and her gesture in doing this for me... I also dont have the words to express how touched I am by Wendys kindness in agreeing to do the painting. Wendy your talent is amazing. You have a gift that you share. When I saw my painting today the emotion I feel when looking at it is so overwhelming in the most positive way.... Kathy hit the nail right on the head when she said its like they are in the room with you. I keep reaching out to touch Frodo's nose. Wendy the little picture that you included for Lydia :cry: What can I say I feel blessed that two very lovely women cared about me my family and my daughter and the picture will be wrapped and under the tree for Lydia... and as I expressed to you today I was sad about the fact we will be moving in feb and would miss the fact that Frodo always slept in Lydias room with her and her picture will be with her in what ever bedroom she has in the future and he will be watching over her and I so do not have the words to thank you for giving us that.

Sweet dreams Rosie

Sending thoughts and wishes to you and Rosie Buttons

Some pics I took yesterday at the park... and I hope the last one makes you smile

Since you asked Kathy here are my latest Lydia pics This one is my favorite for the moment

I have been wondering that myself. Especially since she seems to be so hungry all of the time. She eats then rests eats then rests most of the morning and evening I am trying to think of a name for her so far I have come up with molly or dandelion im not sure which of the two to call her yet

# Am just heading off out. Will oblige when I get home :o)

In high wycombe. I do feel really honoured having her there. She is so lovely.

Thank you. She is in the part of the garden that we do nothing with. Frodo used to love it there she is so welcome to enjoy it and feel secure and safe there. I plan to lock all the back doors if my mums friend comes again Its her space and she should be free to enjoy it in peace

This little lady has been visiting my garden for a little while now. Then one day when my mum and a friend of hers came to visit she was laying sunbathing in the sunshine and I said to my mum come have a little look at her quietly. Well her idiot friend charged out into the garden and frightend her away. I was so upset and although I watched for her she never came back. Until yesterday I am over the moon that my little friend is back and today she has been back again. I :-* her such a lot... I know it sounds silly but she really does brighten up my days watching her enjoy the garden she knows I watch her but seems happy to let me watch

Congratulations and welcome baby cameron

Lydia with my Step Nan Lydias beloved Nanny's Misty These two adore each other Then of course there is Lydia and her Frodo boy... She misses him so much still we all do but recently whilst in her cot I heard her chattering away to her teddies like she does and she said Frodo asleep (we have told her that he went to sleep and is in heaven) and then she said Frodo wake up soon. It was heartbreaking and touching at the same time What a lovely thread this is although it made me just a bit

Your Mum is very wise Kathy

That was her Daddy's bike when he was a little boy. It has been through johan his brother and then Johans 3 children and now Lydia. So It has had a busy life