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poor baby no idea what could be wrong ( sorry ) but thinking of you all and sending :GroupHug:

thank you all she is home and not happy she keep licking the stitches how can i keep her off them ? poor baby

well my baby has gone to be spayed ( she should have been spayed a long time ago but as she is so small the vet wanted to make sure she had made full hight for a collie she has only make 17 inch ) so she is now 22 mths old why do i feel like a bad mummy- she look at me with the puppy eyes like to say where are you going ..... I know it's the right thing to do. but i feel so sad can't wait to get her home

mmmm i don't know lol

how awful and all why trying to do the right thing.

ok, i think the one i have is good she has said that she thinks it would be better to do a letter now saying why you don't want any thing to do with her now or in death - i am told this could be the link to it all

thank you kathy see this is what i don't want and i know she will go after the money, the kids she dose not care she never has - she does not see them for mths at a time she dose not get them birthday stuff not a card zip same at xmas , and some of the stuff she did to use as kids i would never never never never want for my kids would you do the letter ? i can see where they are coming from telling her now that she is zip to do with me and if any thing happens to me or my kids i don't want her there in anyway but as soon as there is money ! she will be there. going to have a think now, moving and changing names would be better than her getting her hands on my kids

thats good to know so as it is in the will it can't happen ? so if i say i don't want this person be look after or have any thign to do with my kids then that would happen so no letter needed ? what happen if that person then fights it all ??

see now up till now, i have always seen it as people in it yes but what i have just been told is that people not in it ( ie my so called mother ) could fight it and take up a lot of the money that i wanted to go to my kids or the people looking after them ! as if there was a fight it would be me paying for it lol if i was here or not as it comes out of the money i have saved and put aside in light of this , i am not thinking of doing a letters now to say what i want so if any thing is not happen , they can't say they did not know i am not working my ass off to pay for a lawyer after i am gone when my kids need them money would it upset i am sure it would but then i don't want my kids to loss out why should they ! so if a letter helps now and it would help after i am going that way

i have just been to change my will now i am not talking what you are going to give to people but how you want your kids to be look after who you want to look after your kids and who will look after the money ( ie your house and the money in it ) made my head spin to lol my Q is anyway I have been told today it would be better to set out what i want and then tell the people that are NOT in it now. so if any things happens they know, just stay away would you tell people ? to stay away ? and if so do you think it would start world war 3 ?? there are some family i don't want to see my kids ever again but do i tell them that ? ( this is the ones that would try and put there noses in not just people i don;t talk to )

lol yes !

she is lovely :wub:

lol has not stop playing he is just a big baby and very good for a 6 mth old puppy his tall ! and so good his recall he great he sit when asked and he you tell him nicely he stop and looks at you ! bless him , he went out like a light tonight. can't think why

lol well this is spot , we was told he was never to be with other dogs just could not be trusted with them the 6 /12 mth puppy that came in, was more play play play than a killer lol his a white tri , with gray on his back , looks lovely yep well i think more puppy play than any thing else lol

just read the post steve loves my kids i have 100 % trust in him. sorry but i think it comes with love he loves me and over time now loves the kids to put all men in one pot is just wrong

poor little thing i hope the true comes out for her. the only way she can be safe

right well i have done the first form now i wait for them to come back to me, they will not help in some cases, so lets hope they do this time

was just reading all about it. but i want to find him i have a very funny feeling lol but i am sure it will all be ok deep breath and then i have to fill out the forms

well done Maddie well done to your mummy to

thank you boosboss

thinking of them all.

ok, for a long time now , I have wanted to fine my dad i have not seen him ( well i think i was 13 ish ) so a long time he would be 70 + now but where do i start looking ?

well we have the car packed,dogs are ready as they will ever be ! lol my self and my son ready tomorrow see you all there Donna

so sorry (hugs to you all )

as far as i can see it's 4 dogs that are running!