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Thinking of you x
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Clare Sweeney yuk yuk yuk !
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congratulations 
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On my second Mirena here too , changed in sept , not the most pleasant experience due to the Dr not being able to find strings
but they got it out eventually , and the new one in , so many more years of lighter periods I hope. Mine didnt stop , but from how they were I can now get on with my life instead of planning trips around toilets , and carrying huge amounts of "supplies" when it was "that time" -
OMG....I could have written this, about my H
He is doing the exact same thing with the Solicitors too, actually, he,s doing EVERYTHING you just posted
Perhaps he,s a bigamist too!!
, his initial isnt M, is it??? 
It sure sounds like the same man to me!! 
Only just caught up with this Bebe ,his initial is P maybe its his long lost twin !! This is the man who claims that if I try to get money from him I will fail as he has no income and no assets ( read that as self employed with a dodgy accountant !) amazing how he has found himself on holiday in the Gambia this week isnt it !!!!
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Thank you all for sharing your experiences in this post. It is only recently I have come to realise I was in one of those relationships and I am so glad I am out. I am so much happier now and it is reassuring to hear I am not alone - I spent five years trying to keep the peace at home, feeling inadecuate and believing it was all my fault...
Caroline
I spent the last 2 years of my marriage trying to "keep the peace" , I became a referee in this house . I used to wish he would have an affair so that I would have a "legitimate" reason to leave him. He wasnt always like that I dont think , I put it down to a mid life crisis! I was always making excuses for him to the kids such as "he is tired" he is stressed" but I used to feel like one of the kids myself , I dont know why I tried to hold it together for so long , my biggest regret is that I stayed even after he spat in my daughters face ! I am deeply ashamed of that .Since we have split he still thinks he can control things , he wont have a discussion about the kids unlesss HE wants too , if he doesnt like whats being said he will walk off. He reckons that unreasonable behaviour is unacceptable grounds for our divorce , and that he wont answer solicitors letters if he doesnt like the contents ! and yet most people who know him think he is such a great bloke , he is very popular and well thought of.
To anyone in a controlling relationship , I would say "making the break is very scary , but to be able to relax in your own home with your own kids and not be making allowances for someone elses behaviour all the time is such a good feeling , it is not without problems , but I havent regretted it for a single second"
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Gawd, me too. Praps we need a fat & 46 club?
Sign me up then !
I'm Karen , 46 , but feel about 26 most of the time , occasionaly feel about 86
I live just outside Liverpool , with Rascal scruffdog aged 8ish , Jig whippet x aged 9ish , George scruffbag aged 2 ish and Declan small scruffbag aged 2ish , I also live with Joe 20 , Sinead 17 and hooligan Billy aged 15 , I have another daughter Rhiannon who no longer lives here , we also have 2 goldfish types in a tank , and lots of outdoor fish and frogs in a pond , I am in the throes of getting divorced at the moment and enjoying the single life once more
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