Thanks very Sam, and for your kind wishes.
I did send you a PM, not realising you had kindly started a thread - thanks.
I'm having a bad day, my cat, Pebbles, who is 18 yrs is poorly and has an appointment at vets this evening. Sadly, I don't think she will be coming home
She has been losing weight for a while, and last couple of days, off her food and has no energy
Sorry, to come back on such a downer.
to you all x