OK- non-child owning person here.
I don't think the option of child free dining should be totally frowned upon. I don't think anyone is suggesting that EVERY eating place has a child free zone. Just as some places are geared towards children, some restaurants are vegetarian, thai, etc etc why could we not have some places that cater to persons wanting to occaissionally have a meal with no children?
I don't mind children and I know that they will not always be little angels they all have off days and, as long as a parent is aware of what the child is doing and ensuring that they are not putting themselves or anyone in danger and being totally out of control, then a bit of noise etc doesn't bother me.
The comments that people are shocked that some folk 'don't like' or 'hate' children - well I am also still shocked that a portion of the community 'hate' dogs/cats etc but that is their choice. I have chosen not to have kids, but that doesn't mean i hate them (couldn't eat a whole one tho' )