griff Posted October 11, 2019 Report Share Posted October 11, 2019 I say he doesn't want to be seen with me as when he is at work he doesn't want to meet me on his break. I am not a minger, well I don't think I am and am not short of male attention... just makes me feel like he doesn't like to be seen with me...he says it's not that Awwww poor little daisy, maybe a bit confused Owl pleased the chiropractor was o.k Alex, Kota was like that....took me 4 months to house train her as I used puppy pads...not a brilliant idea Yantan I hope you are feeling much better now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eve Posted October 11, 2019 Report Share Posted October 11, 2019 I can confirm you are no minger Griff, quite the opposite. And Steve is far too complex a person for it to be as simple as not wanting to be seen with you. Think of him as a rescue dog, where you don't know the full background, and with many issues that need worked through gradually. Which you're doing brilliantly. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted October 11, 2019 Report Share Posted October 11, 2019 Thanks Eve, he is a nightmare...he is getting better though, he even bought me stuff in town today!! He never does that! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yantan Posted October 11, 2019 Report Share Posted October 11, 2019 Brilliant Eve! 👍 Yes feeling better and better as the day has gone in Griff. Sats up to 97 now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted October 11, 2019 Report Share Posted October 11, 2019 (edited) I am pleased your sats have increased Yantan His life has been terrible but he has me now lol....not sure if that's an improvement lol Edited October 11, 2019 by griff Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owl Posted October 11, 2019 Report Share Posted October 11, 2019 Of course it is, Griff. He is lucky to have you in his life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eve Posted October 11, 2019 Report Share Posted October 11, 2019 Agree with Owl, he is very lucky to have you Griff. He's a damaged soul and you need each other right now. That's all that matters for the moment xx 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eve Posted October 11, 2019 Report Share Posted October 11, 2019 So pleased your sats are up Yantan - I'm guessing that's a good thing lol, forgive my ignorance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merledogs Posted October 12, 2019 Report Share Posted October 12, 2019 Glad you're feeling better Maz 🥰 Well remembered, yes Milly was the boss of the boys 🥰 Lily did the same thing this morning. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yantan Posted October 12, 2019 Report Share Posted October 12, 2019 Morning all. Lil what are you like! Hopefully Alex it will suddenly click with her. Sats down to 89 this morning first thing. Was gasping for breath, couldn't talk and was trying to mime to Ruby to bring an inhaler. Sats starting to climb now and I'm following the breathing technique they were getting me to do in hospital. Sats is short for saturation, in this case it's a measure of the oxygen in your blood supply. We should all be at 100 %. Anything less than 95% can be cause for concern and cause breathing problems. However as you age and particularly if you suffer from respiratory problems your sats can & do go down but your body adjusts so a lower percentage becomes your new normal. Also all sorts of things cause your sats to fall - stress for instance, exercise etc. and that's normal. It only becomes a problem if it doesn't return to 100. This is from what I gleaned in hospital about it - I'm no expert by any means! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted October 12, 2019 Author Report Share Posted October 12, 2019 the problem is, when I had pheumonia, because I was trying hard to breathe, it kept the sats up both dogs jumped on the bed last night. just got them to eat a hotdog each. baby steps.... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suzeanna Posted October 12, 2019 Report Share Posted October 12, 2019 How do you check your sats at home? In hospital they put a sensor on your finger, don't they? They weren't going to let me home after one op as my sats were too low, but I did deep breathing for five minutes and they checked again and it was ok. Is there anything in your environment, apart from your cough that could be making you worse? Anyone burning a bonfire, or coal fires? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted October 12, 2019 Report Share Posted October 12, 2019 Just had flowers delivered with a note saying sorry love dad. Don't know if I said here but I had to talk to him Thursday night...his sister messaged me, his cousin died the 21st...we already knew about it but we were told he had passed out and fallen, it was in their local paper...turns out a woman and man were arrested on suspicion of manslaughter....the woman is his wife!!! The man.....the lodger. We didn't know Alan well, he was an alcoholic in the past who lost everything...his home, business but his wife always stuck by him, the family are instantly blaming her but think that perhaps if he was still drinking one of them just pushed him to get him away and he fell, I told my aunty that manslaughter means you didn't set out with the intention to kill but her answer was...he is still dead! I don't know the lady but I can't see she would suddenly after all these years decide to get rid of him by killing him and he was a big bloke too so I think he was drunk 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted October 12, 2019 Author Report Share Posted October 12, 2019 im sorry to hear that. where are you staying? shhhh the girl is sat with me on the sofa. they have both eaten hot dogs for their tea 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted October 12, 2019 Report Share Posted October 12, 2019 I am still at mum and dad's...mum said he would leave before i did ( unless I want to) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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