suzeanna Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 Sorry for your loss Owl, but as you say, a happy release. She and your aunt will be putting the universe to rights, no doubt! It sounds a very peaceful way to move to the next world. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murtle Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 Sorry to hear that Owl, but glad she is released. Sending love and hugs. xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 Owl, sorry for your loss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 im so sorry xxx she is released xxxxxxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JulesB Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 So hard to lose someone, even when it sets them free. I'm very sorry Owl x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owl Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 Thanks Fugees. It all seems a bit unreal at present, with both of them going in a space of 5 weeks. I just feel very tired. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackmagic Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 Sorry to read about your mum, Owl. Although you know it is coming it is still a shock when it comes suddenly at the end. Things will seem unreal for a time but she is now at peace. Take care of yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yantan Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 I'm so sorry to hear about your loss Owl but relieved that your mum's passing was peaceful. I'm in bed now but will light a candle here in the morning in memory of Clarice. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snow Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 Owl the tiredness is to be expected, you have been physically, mentally and emotionally at full pelt for quite some time, rest and sleep are the best things for you. I am so sorry for your loss xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whizzie Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 Rest in peace Owl's Mum. It does sound like a release but tough for you Owl to lose an Auntie and Mum is such a short space of time. Be kind to yourself. I am sure you have soldiered on through this for months if not years and imagine that you could well feel tired for some time now that you no longer have to fulfil a supporting role.I still have patches of feeling drained more than a year of losing Dad. You think you are doing better then something happens to knock you back again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merledogs Posted January 15, 2015 Author Report Share Posted January 15, 2015 So sorry for your loss owl Morning. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owl Posted January 15, 2015 Report Share Posted January 15, 2015 Morning everyone. You are of course quite right about the tiredness. I can't sleep in the day or end up being awake all night, so will simply try to chill out and not panic. Today I am seeing the undertaker to sign forms, and phoning registrar and solicitor to make appointments. Those are the only things which must be done today. My sister is calling the minister and will arrange funeral with him. As she is a retired minister herself she is very used to this kind of thing. I am rather dreading it as there will be a load of people there and at reception afterwards and I won't know many of them, and I always find social occasions difficult. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted January 15, 2015 Report Share Posted January 15, 2015 a 12kg dog landing elbow first into my stomach woke me up, then jerry rolled onto my throat just to check I was getting up. but don't yawn, she puts her head in your mouth! lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yantan Posted January 15, 2015 Report Share Posted January 15, 2015 Owl I couldn't face the funeral tea after my grandad's funeral. (My grandad was effectively my dad) I excused myself from going to it and nobody thought badly of me for it. I went home and slept very soundly for a few hours. I'd been running on empty for a while and needed it. Damn convention and doing what is expected of you. Look after yourself missus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz Posted January 15, 2015 Report Share Posted January 15, 2015 I didn't stay long at mothers. will you get to live in the house? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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