merledogs Posted December 16, 2011 Report Share Posted December 16, 2011 Jane, my heart is breaking with you. But what a wonderful person you are to be able to send him on his way with his dignity intact and without being in agony, Couldn't agree more As I keep saying to him, he doesn't need to suffer for me, that's my job. I think that's the best thing we can ever do for them, let them go when they are ready, regardless of how much pain that causes us I'm so sorry that you are losing your beautiful boy today and that Spud will lose his bestest friend Sending lots of love and positive thoughts for a calm and peaceful journey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
houndzrus Posted December 16, 2011 Report Share Posted December 16, 2011 I'm so sorry to hear that Ben will be leaving you today. You have done the kindest action that you can ever do for your boy. Lots of love to you all. :GroupHug: Wishing Ben a peaceful passing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanrossscot Posted December 16, 2011 Report Share Posted December 16, 2011 So sorry to hear this news. Well dopne for being strong enough to make the right decision at the right time. It won't make the pain less though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted December 16, 2011 Report Share Posted December 16, 2011 Jane i really am so very sorry :GroupHug: i will be thinking of you all this afternoon Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clare Posted December 16, 2011 Report Share Posted December 16, 2011 So sorry to hear Ben will be leaving you today I will be thinking of you this afternoon Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greys mum Posted December 16, 2011 Report Share Posted December 16, 2011 I am so sorry. Your love for Ben shines out through your posts. Have a peaceful passing Ben surrounded with love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ian Posted December 16, 2011 Report Share Posted December 16, 2011 So sorry to read that Ben will be leaving you today. I hope that happy memories of times togwether will bring you a little comfort as he heads on his way to the bridge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
celeste Posted December 16, 2011 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2011 It was all very peaceful, I took him out into the garden for a wee before the vet arrived, he settled onto the terrace as we were coming back in which was where he always liked to lie, so I got the vet to come out and let him go there, i think that's the way he would have wanted it. I held and kissed his head and the vet hadn't even got the first injection in and he was gone. Janette said that as he was going and she was giving him reiki, she saw a great wash of red which was his earth chakra ( I think ) then saw a great big wide open view of the country side. I didn't know this but Janette said Ben was receiving reiki from right around the world from various other practitioners, the most touching was her friend in Vancouver who was going to meditate and think of him in the hour he'd be going Goodbye beautiful handsome boy, we didn't have nearly enough time together, fly quicker than light, don't look back and be free Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
houndzrus Posted December 16, 2011 Report Share Posted December 16, 2011 :GroupHug: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yantan Posted December 16, 2011 Report Share Posted December 16, 2011 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owl Posted December 16, 2011 Report Share Posted December 16, 2011 I am so sorry that you have lost your wonderful boy, but at least he had the most peaceful passing anyone can hope for. Run free Ben Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
griff Posted December 16, 2011 Report Share Posted December 16, 2011 Goodbye Big lad, you will be missed by us here in cov :GroupHug: jane if you need anything you know where i am run free beautiful Ben Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merledogs Posted December 17, 2011 Report Share Posted December 17, 2011 Sleep tight beautiful boy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
celeste Posted December 17, 2011 Author Report Share Posted December 17, 2011 We had to put him in the car last night which I really didn't want to do, but he kept bleeding from his nose , there was such a lot and it was upsetting Spud so much he didn't want to walk past Ben. We managed to change the blanket he was wrapped in but he bled on that too, this was about 6 hours after he'd died , god knows why, I'll ask the vet when I go in next week, I suppose it must have been the tumours in his lung Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whizzie Posted December 17, 2011 Report Share Posted December 17, 2011 Thinking of you as you begin to come to terms with losing your beautiful boy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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